Welcome

Dear Successful Woman,

Does work come easily because you know what to do to get excellent results? Does the effort you put into your job tend to lead to more success?  If you’ve answered yes, those qualities that are helping you succeed in your career may actually be keeping you from love.

Here’s what I mean…the effort of doing, thinking, initiating, and taking charge from 9 to 5 has the opposite effect in love.  That’s been my experience and my clients’ experience.  I understand how disheartening and confusing things can be when you’re trying and the love you want isn’t coming to fruition.

If so much of your life is going well for you, and you feel embarrassed about not having love figured out, I’ve been there too. As a smart, capable, successful career woman, it was hard to admit at times, that my love life wasn’t as successful. If you’re like I was, you’re giving the impression that you’ve got it all together and are hesitant to share otherwise with friends and family.

On the surface, I seemed fine with not having the love I desired.  After all, my career was going well and I enjoyed spending time with friends and family.  Even though I knew my life was good, deep down, I wanted that special someone to share my life with.  When I was finally able to cultivate the conditions for love to bloom, that’s when my love life positively shifted for good.  Perhaps you’d like that too…

As the Love Mentor for Thinking Women, I help you experience exceptional love using your mind and intuition. When you see things clearly and feel at ease, you’ll know what to do and feel hopeful about love.

If you’re struggling internally with love, learn how you can cultivate the conditions for love to thrive in your Ease and Clarity Love Session.

With Love,

Janet Ong Zimmerman

Founder of Love for Successful Women & Your Tango Expert

Co-Author of International Best Seller Sexy Secrets to a Juicy Love Life.

Visit my profile on YourTango Experts

Get My Blog Posts by Email (Free)

Enter your name and email address below if you'd like to have my blog articles sent by email. Its free, and you can unsubscribe at any time.

Latest from my blog:

Why Problems Are the Solution to the Love You Desire

August 15, 2017
Thumbnail image for Why Problems Are the Solution to the Love You Desire

There’s no doubt that problems can drain us, be frustrating, and cause a lot of uncertainty and stress.  When we don’t deal with our problems, they end up following us around and even chasing us, as if they’re begging for our attention. When faced with a problem, the way we deal with it will either […]

Read the full article →

How to Get a Man to Be Open with You

August 1, 2017
Thumbnail image for How to Get a Man to Be Open with You

High-quality men crave and want to feel close to the woman they care about.  And since men weren’t raised to be open and vulnerable, it’s hard for them to share their innermost thoughts and feelings.  Even if they want to, they’re not sure how to do so. Masculine men tend to want to be seen […]

Read the full article →

Why Dating Makes It Hard to Find The One

July 18, 2017
Thumbnail image for Why Dating Makes It Hard to Find The One

If you’re like most women who’ve been dating for a while, chances are, you find it disappointing, painful, and perhaps even exhausting.  Dating for most women is a means to the end goal of getting into a committed and lasting relationship.  What many don’t realize is the chances of finding the one from dating are […]

Read the full article →

Having a Hard Time Setting Boundaries Because You Don’t Want to Seem Controlling?

June 27, 2017
Thumbnail image for Having a Hard Time Setting Boundaries Because You Don’t Want to Seem Controlling?

It can be hard to set boundaries when you want to be seen as carefree and easy-going. But every time you find yourself feeling upset, frustrated, disappointed, or any kind of negative emotion, one of your boundaries have been crossed. Not setting boundaries causes us to go along with whatever a man wants, even if […]

Read the full article →

The Myth That Love Will Fall Into Place

June 13, 2017
Thumbnail image for The Myth That Love Will Fall Into Place

From my 20s through mid-30s, my professional life was my main focus.  I worked for well-respected companies, was busy striving, and promoted to positions of greater responsibility.  I earned a good living and was self-sufficient, all the while thinking love would happen. While I dated guys and had relationships with some of them, they never […]

Read the full article →

How to Know if He Really Likes You

May 23, 2017

If you’ve been seeing a man you really like and aren’t sure how he feels about you, what should you do? Or what if you really like a guy, but aren’t sure if he likes you? In the short video below, you’ll learn specific things to watch for.  You’ll also learn how to ask him […]

Read the full article →

Bigger Boobs Mean a Happier Love Life

May 9, 2017
Thumbnail image for Bigger Boobs Mean a Happier Love Life

That was the story I told myself through my 20s.  Now that I’m older and wiser, I see how my story of “bigger boobs mean a happier love life” negatively affected my body image and experience of love.  My friend and I even talked about getting boob jobs, but then decided not to because of […]

Read the full article →

How 5 Seconds Can Positively Change Your Love Life

April 25, 2017
Thumbnail image for How 5 Seconds Can Positively Change Your Love Life

Have you noticed how easy it is to talk yourself out of doing something that you don’t feel like doing?  Even if it could improve your love life?  If so, you’re just being human. We’ve all talked ourselves out of one or more of these situations. Not putting ourselves on a dating site because we’re […]

Read the full article →