Dear Successful Woman,

Does work come easily because you know what to do to get excellent results? Does the effort you put into your job tend to lead to more success?  If you’ve answered yes, those qualities that are helping you succeed in your professional life may actually be sabotaging your love life.

Here’s what I mean…the effort of doing, thinking, initiating, and taking charge from 9 to 5 has the opposite effect in love.  That’s been my experience and my clients’ experience.  I understand how disheartening and confusing things can be when you’re trying and the love you want isn’t coming to fruition.

If you’re giving the impression that you’ve got your life together, if you value your privacy and tend to be discreet about your love life, and if you secretly long for romantic love, I’ve been there too.  On the surface, I seemed fine with not having the love I desired.  After all, my career was going well and I enjoyed spending time with friends and family.  Even though I knew my life was good, deep down, I wanted that special someone to share my life with. Perhaps you’d like that too…

As the founder of Love for Successful Women, I inspire intelligent women who are professionally successful to cultivate romantic love with ease and clarity. When you feel at ease and see things clearly, you will feel hopeful about love and and know what to do. If you’re struggling internally and mentally with finding love, learn how you can cultivate the conditions for love to thrive in your Ease and Clarity Love Session.

With Love,

Janet Ong Zimmerman

Founder of Love for Successful Women & Your Tango Expert

Co-Author of International Best Seller Sexy Secrets to a Juicy Love Life.

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