Practical wisdom about dating, courtship, and relationships to improve your love life.
How Dating Has Evolved and What You Can Do
Hundreds of years ago, dating was a formal process where men courted women. The original intent of dating was to learn about each other and decide if they were a good fit for marriage. Free love with sex was the focus in the 1960s where women asked men out and living together was a step towards marriage. Since the 1960s, casual interactions and living together without a long-term commitment has been the norm.
While this casual approach appeals to some people, if you are seeking a long-term commitment that can lead to marriage, you can change the way you’ve been dating and meet more men who will court you. Here is a compilation of four articles that will help you change your approach to dating and improve your love life.
1. Want To Date A Higher Quality Man? 5 Changes You Must Make First
A woman can stand in her own way of having the dating experience she desires when she lets men rush her into having sex and misses red flags. If this has happened to you, you can create a better experience by changing yourself in ways that let you stay true to who you are. Here are 5 ways to change for the better while attracting and dating higher quality men
2. Why Dating May Not Be For You
Dating lends itself to different expectations. Some people date to hang out and hook up, while others date to have companionship, and still others date in hopes of finding a committed relationship. Since most people who are dating have different expectations, it is common to feel disappointed and frustrated when the outcome isn’t what you hoped for. Instead of dating, learn a different approach that attracts more men who want the same kind of relationship as you.
3. Why You Should Date Him and Not His Potential
When dating a guy for his potential, it can be difficult to feel emotional intimacy. When you don’t fully appreciate him as he is, it’s because you think something is lacking in him. In this situation, there will always be some distance between the two of you. Learn why what you want for him may not necessarily be what’s best for him, and why you should accept him as is or let him go.
4. Are You Trying Too Hard to Get a Boyfriend?
If you feel like you're putting in a lot of effort and things feel forced, you may be trying too hard to get a boyfriend. Learn how to stop focusing too much on him and letting things develop naturally. In doing so, you will keep your self-esteem intact and see how interested he really is in you.
Dating With More Ease and Enjoyment is Completely Possible
Albert Einstein said, “Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.” If you want different and better results in your love life, change your approach to dating. Start getting better results by practicing the suggestions in the abovementioned articles.
Have suggestions that will help others improve their dating life? If so, please share them in the comments below.
p.s. If dating is causing you disappointment and frustration, there is a better approach where you bring out a man's desire to woo you. Learn how to let yourself be wooed while inspiring him to appreciate, cherish and respect you.
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